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Dr. Pussydemons

Dr. Pussydemons

Before Q  We all had a good laugh at "Dr. Pussydemons" yesterday - and the idea of haunted vaginas is laughable - but one of you asked me why I was going so hard on her.  To answer that we need to hit the rewind a few years, back to the eye incident.  As an...

Teach Them Well And Let Them Lead The Way

Teach Them Well And Let Them Lead The Way

Parents, please I am ten million percent done with parents right now. Not all of us, specifically the ones who keep posting things about how their kids desperately want to get involved, but they (parents) won't let them Y'all are lazy privileged chicken-shits. I said...

What Would Have Been

What Would Have Been

"Must have been staring"It's creeping closer to what would have been Giovanni's due date. For a few weeks there, seeing pregnant women, hearing other pregnancy announcements, etc. stopped bothering me.  Since March 1st it's been back. He was due the 25th.  I keep...

Honest Thoughts About Anxiety

Honest Thoughts About Anxiety

It sucks.Some honest thoughts about anxiety... My struggle with this beast isn't new. Not at all. It's been with me for as long as I can remember. It's a familiar frenemy... but it has changed since everything went sideways and we lost the baby. I kissed Paolo goodbye...

Day Two

Day Two

Feeling Cheated Yes, I'm in a lot of pain. Yes, I'm heartbroken. Yes, yesterday was another day of tears at random intervals. Mostly, though, I'm feeling cheated. Not for me... for him. He deserves to be a father. He is kind, compassionate, funny, gentle, even-keeled,...

Gio Is Gone

Gio Is Gone

We Lost The Baby I tried to think of a kinder, softer, gentler way to say that but there isn't one. It isn't kind, soft, gentle news. Things were fine and then they weren't. Pao was on his way to work. I was getting ready to bake a sweet ass cake for my mom. Then...

The Day After

The Day After

Ugh. Men. Normally, after something has happened, I have clear and cogent thoughts to share. I have some statement woven together from strands of biting wit, deeper insight, or at least awesome song lyrics. Today is not that day. Today I just have this stream of...

Advice Ghost?

Advice Ghost?

Who The F*ck Was I Just Talking To?!So I'm laying on the bed talking to Will about something very serious that happened earlier. He's being comforting and giving me an amazing and interesting perspective on things.  Kayelani comes in to ask for a bottle. I get up to...

Eyebrows And Pizza

Eyebrows And Pizza

I Needed A Moment Y'allOK so normally I don't share dirty talk or anything said during foreplay with you guys because that's a super intimate thing and really nobody's business. But I'm going to make an exception this time because I could write an entire steamy novel...