Just Because It’s Pink

Just Because It’s Pink

ANother Reminder Alright, fam. As we head closer to October I would like to start my yearly reminders that Pinkwashing is a popular marketing tool and it sucks. Just because it’s pink, or has a pink ribbon on, it doesn’t mean you should buy it. It...
Dr. Pussydemons

Dr. Pussydemons

Before Q   We all had a good laugh at “Dr. Pussydemons” yesterday – and the idea of haunted vaginas is laughable – but one of you asked me why I was going so hard on her.  To answer that we need to hit the rewind a few years, back to the...
Teach Them Well And Let Them Lead The Way

Teach Them Well And Let Them Lead The Way

Parents, please I am ten million percent done with parents right now. Not all of us, specifically the ones who keep posting things about how their kids desperately want to get involved, but they (parents) won’t let them Y’all are lazy privileged...
What Would Have Been

What Would Have Been

“Must have been staring” It’s creeping closer to what would have been Giovanni’s due date. For a few weeks there, seeing pregnant women, hearing other pregnancy announcements, etc. stopped bothering me.  Since March 1st it’s been back. He...
Day Two

Day Two

Feeling Cheated Yes, I’m in a lot of pain. Yes, I’m heartbroken. Yes, yesterday was another day of tears at random intervals. Mostly, though, I’m feeling cheated. Not for me… for him. He deserves to be a father. He is kind, compassionate,...
Gio Is Gone

Gio Is Gone

We Lost The Baby I tried to think of a kinder, softer, gentler way to say that but there isn’t one. It isn’t kind, soft, gentle news. Things were fine and then they weren’t. Pao was on his way to work. I was getting ready to bake a sweet ass cake for...